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What is Storywork?

Storywork is the process of writing and reading a story from your past in the presence of a witness who has already gone to the depths of their own stories of heartache and harm. The embodied listener is able to hold your story with truth and honesty while extending the utter kindness and compassion of God because they have had the same gift given to them.

This modality of healing was founded by Dr. Dan Allender. The method is formally called “Narrative Focused Trauma Care” and is based on the belief that our stories—especially stories of harm, heartache, and trauma from early life—deeply shape who we are and how we live.

Often, the pain we carry from the past remains hidden or unspoken, but it continues to affect our emotions, relationships, and sense of identity. Allender’s approach invites each of us to revisit and explore our stories of wounding in a safe, compassionate space.

By naming the truth of what happened and how it impacted us, we begin to loosen the grip of shame, fear, and false beliefs we’ve carried. This work is not about staying stuck in the past, but about finding healing through it—discovering that even in brokenness, there is beauty and purpose.

Telling the truth of our story allows us to reclaim our voice, connect more deeply with others, and live with greater freedom, joy, and integrity. In short, it’s about becoming more fully alive and living more freely into who you were created to be.

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Serotiny
sə-ˈrät-nē 

The process by which some trees only release their seeds in response to intense heat or fire.

The external force of fire is what activates a hidden, life-giving process within the tree. This is true of some Cypress trees.

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Serotiny can help us understand this healing process.

Storywork coaches aim to act as agents of release and renewal by cultivating conditions where the internal, buried stories can safely emerge. I do this through a combination of somatic practices (body regulation and trauma release) with storywork coaching.

Without fire, the cone stays sealed.
Without a witness, the story often stays trapped.

The fire in serotiny must be intense enough to soften resin—but not so hot it destroys everything. Like the paradox of serotinous fire, as a Storywork Coach, I bring an attuned presence, curiosity, and gentle pressure—just enough to invite vulnerability without overwhelming the nervous system.

Healing requires warmth, not destruction. Storywork “burns away” shame and self-contempt with maternal compassion.

Fire clears the ground for something new. Through coaching, I disrupt old patterns and survival strategies that may have once protected, but now prevent growth. 

A maternal presence makes space for something new to take root.
I use my maternity to mid-wive new stories of rest and hope.

Fire doesn’t create the seeds—it just releases them. As a facilitator, I don’t impose meaning— I  help you uncover and integrate the truth you’ve always carried while inviting you to feel deeply and be present in your body.

The story was waiting.
It just needed warmth, presence, and pressure.

Serotinous trees wait years for the right fire; they’re patient until the moment comes. I won’t rush disclosure or force your nervous system to go faster than it feels safe. I deeply honor timing, attunement, and readiness. For many people, these were lacking in childhood.

The fire comes when the forest can handle it.
The story is told when the soul is ready.